Dating.......

An interesting excerpt from someone

"If you really want that person, you want to seduce the person, you want to take the time. It's fun. If you don't want to go to the trouble, then perhaps you really aren't interested in that person. To be able to slowly get to know someone allows for a more rational decision making process in that I can step away from that person and think about how I really feel about the personality match. It also allows me much greater insights into myself, what I want and don't want. I've known many people who have jumped in and have no idea who they are becoming involved with. It seems to me that had they taken the time to get to know one another, many of the difficulties they had could have been avoided. For me, I have never regretted waiting, but I have regretted not waiting. The relationships I've been blessed with have been far more meaningful when I've taken the time to get to know the person. Wouldn't you be amazed by someone who is willing to take the time to get to know you and is interested in you as a whole person instead of just what is between your legs? "

CONSCIOUS ACTS OF CREATION II

I have been reading lots of self-help, psychology and spiritual books for more than 15 years.

I was exposed by Tony Robbin - Unlimited Power and mind map at the very age. Unfortunately, I find mind map useless when it comes to use to study science and history. Mind map is more useful for exploratory and creative problem solving. I have to admit that I actually don't really understand and appreciate half of what was written in Unlimited Power. Maybe I was too young and had yet enough experience to create a link of what was it said in the book. Subsequently, I failed to keep track of most of the books that I had read, I began to explore in the field of human potential. Needless to say, I was a high flyer back in the school. My name was renowned among the teachers. Anyway, I was interested in human potential in the hope that it could help to propel my ambition to be an astronomer, my childhood dream. Sorry to disappoint you all readers that I am not an astronomer. Somewhere along the path, I have lost my track as a result of Asian financial meltdown. I had chosen the second better option- to be a physicist.
Anyway, to cut short, I was tugged into spirituality. There was an overlap between spirituality and self-development. I have seen people who are very involved in self-development are also passionate in spirituality. If you are still with me, I would like to share the secrets that I have found about manifesting what you desire.

1. You must imagine and even act as if you already have it.
Give thanks and appreciation as if you have it. Feel . visualize, smell and sense the object of your desire as if you have it NOW.

2. Learn to meditate and concentrate. Your skill of concentration will be useful during your active visualization of your object/goal of desire. I would allow you to shift the randomness of vacuum fluctuation into a more coherent nature allowing conscious creation to be more effortless.

3. Think positive, act accordingly and reflect your action.

4. Relax and stop worrying.

5. If you object or goal is beneficial to other people, it will more likely to be successful.

6. Yeah. But not neccesary, if you can in tune with your spiritual guide or higher-self, it would be a great help too. However, they usually shy away from something too materialistic with an exception that if what you would do could accelerate your spiritual/self development.