I highly recommended this
It is something that I have been searching for years. It is not something easy to understand, however, if you are interested in physics, psychology, spirituality and self-development, this video will give you AWE and feeling inspired. Again a physicist has done a great good in pushing the frontier of intentional consciousness on space.
I think it is possible to expand the purpose of the universe (as written in the freedom of choice) according to Dr. Tom Chalko
Hence, there are TWO reasons for every individual human
being to exist:
1. to develop our individual intellect to the highest extent possible
2. to develop our ability to experience the Highest
Feelings that we can imagine
After watching the video of conscious acts of creation, I would revise it to
1. to learn to be an effective co-creator with your life and universe
The universe seems more fun that way. We seem to live in U1 Gauge symmetry world or at least at our undisplined minds and intentions. Learning to master the in-born faculties of influencing the external and internal self are extremely important . The 'paranormal' abilities seem to stem from SU1 Gauge symmetry, so does the intentional manifestation. We all have access of SU1 Gauge symmetry.
Working at SU1 Gauge symmetry, the act of emothought ( thoughts that contains emotion) becomes dominant influence on the surroudings. Cultiviting love would be a natural part of becoming a successful co-creator of the universe.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Friday, September 12, 2008
Are you lucky enough?
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaksthey deserve?A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why somepeople are always in the right place at the right time, while othersconsistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements innational newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my researchand over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives andhad them take part in experiments.The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behaviour are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave bothlucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look throughit and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused onlooking for something else. They go to parties' intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs. The lucky ones make the best of what they have and find ways to make it better. Unlucky ones tend to find an easy way out and fail in life.Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for.
My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chanceopportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition,create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend amonth carrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a lucky person.Dramatic results! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened. The results were dramatic: 80% ofpeople were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhapsmost important of all, luckier. The lucky people had become evenluckier and the unlucky had become lucky.Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and find ways to make things workbetter. Family and loved ones for a start.
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well.
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting ortelephone call.
Have a Lucky day and work for it.The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaksthey deserve?A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why somepeople are always in the right place at the right time, while othersconsistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements innational newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my researchand over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives andhad them take part in experiments.The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behaviour are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave bothlucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look throughit and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused onlooking for something else. They go to parties' intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs. The lucky ones make the best of what they have and find ways to make it better. Unlucky ones tend to find an easy way out and fail in life.Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for.
My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chanceopportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition,create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend amonth carrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a lucky person.Dramatic results! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened. The results were dramatic: 80% ofpeople were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhapsmost important of all, luckier. The lucky people had become evenluckier and the unlucky had become lucky.Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and find ways to make things workbetter. Family and loved ones for a start.
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well.
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting ortelephone call.
Have a Lucky day and work for it.The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
People management
Become genuinely interested in other people. Don't try to impress others. Let them impress you. Be a good listener. You can have a greater effect on others by the way that you listen than by the way that you talk. People are most interested in themselves. If you share that interest, they will respond.
The greatest hunger that people have is to be needed, wanted and loved. Help create those feelings in others. People love attention, affection and appreciation.
Seek first to understand then to be understood. Everybody wants to be understood. Don’t interrupt. Others won’t pay attention to you until they’ve had there own say. Don't assume you know there position on something, until they agree that you do.
Be yourself. No one can make everyone happy. A fake relationship has zero value.
Never criticize, condemn or complain. People very rarely criticize themselves, no matter how wrong they may be. Your criticism will not be welcome. Criticism puts others on the defensive, hurts self-esteem and builds resentment.
A way of critisizing others without actually putting them into a difficult spot is explaining there problem from your perspective. In other words instead of saying;
You do this and this wrong.
You say;I've always done this and this wrong and this is how I solved it.
Avoid arguments: you can only lose. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. Most arguments end with each contestant more certain of their opinions and less willing to change them and even if you win, you hurt the pride of the loser and the loser may resent you for it.
Choose to be kind rather than right. All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.
Listen to others’ concerns/complaints, you will ease tension and build relationships. Be eager to hear from those who may complain about you or those you represent, however wrong those complaints may be. Thank them for bringing up their concerns, be genuinely grateful as this is your greatest source of improvement.Is anyone a little happier because I came along today?
The greatest gift you can give someone is to make them smile. There is nothing worth more than to make someone smile.Smile. Greet others with enthusiasm and animation. A smile tells others that you like them and are glad to see them.
To have a friend, you must be one.
Learn to like yourself. Others will respond to you the way you respond to yourself.
Be enthusiastic. Nothing significant was ever achieved without enthusiasm - including deep, rich human relationships. Be positive. Positive people attract others; negative people repel others.
Allow people to do things for you, give them the gift of being able to give to you.
Help people like themselves. The greatest compliment someone can give you is to say, I like myself better when I'm with you.
Key points-
-Be genuinely interested in other people
-Listening is more important than talking.
- People want to feel important, understood, wanted, needed and loved.
- What you do is not nearly as important as how it makes people feel
- We can only observe others, we can't control or place demands on them
- Never criticize, condemn or argue, always seek understanding and then show you understand them.
- Make people feel good. Find the good in them.
The greatest hunger that people have is to be needed, wanted and loved. Help create those feelings in others. People love attention, affection and appreciation.
Seek first to understand then to be understood. Everybody wants to be understood. Don’t interrupt. Others won’t pay attention to you until they’ve had there own say. Don't assume you know there position on something, until they agree that you do.
Be yourself. No one can make everyone happy. A fake relationship has zero value.
Never criticize, condemn or complain. People very rarely criticize themselves, no matter how wrong they may be. Your criticism will not be welcome. Criticism puts others on the defensive, hurts self-esteem and builds resentment.
A way of critisizing others without actually putting them into a difficult spot is explaining there problem from your perspective. In other words instead of saying;
You do this and this wrong.
You say;I've always done this and this wrong and this is how I solved it.
Avoid arguments: you can only lose. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. Most arguments end with each contestant more certain of their opinions and less willing to change them and even if you win, you hurt the pride of the loser and the loser may resent you for it.
Choose to be kind rather than right. All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.
Listen to others’ concerns/complaints, you will ease tension and build relationships. Be eager to hear from those who may complain about you or those you represent, however wrong those complaints may be. Thank them for bringing up their concerns, be genuinely grateful as this is your greatest source of improvement.Is anyone a little happier because I came along today?
The greatest gift you can give someone is to make them smile. There is nothing worth more than to make someone smile.Smile. Greet others with enthusiasm and animation. A smile tells others that you like them and are glad to see them.
To have a friend, you must be one.
Learn to like yourself. Others will respond to you the way you respond to yourself.
Be enthusiastic. Nothing significant was ever achieved without enthusiasm - including deep, rich human relationships. Be positive. Positive people attract others; negative people repel others.
Allow people to do things for you, give them the gift of being able to give to you.
Help people like themselves. The greatest compliment someone can give you is to say, I like myself better when I'm with you.
Key points-
-Be genuinely interested in other people
-Listening is more important than talking.
- People want to feel important, understood, wanted, needed and loved.
- What you do is not nearly as important as how it makes people feel
- We can only observe others, we can't control or place demands on them
- Never criticize, condemn or argue, always seek understanding and then show you understand them.
- Make people feel good. Find the good in them.
Chinese not to be American Jews....Ahmad said
It is a very sad day in Penang. I wonder how could Ahmad is selected as a chief of Bukit Bendera division. He warned Chinese Malaysians not to mimic American Jews who not only seek to control the country's economy but also its political power. From psychological point of view, no doubt that Ahmad has difficulty in dealing jeaolusy. It is known that American Jews have the highest average IQ in the world. This will usually translate in excellency in various fields, not only in ecopolitics but also in science and humanities.
A person with power, if he is inflicted with jeolousy, will always bring the desire of supressing the more intelligent social segment of the society. History has given us several examples. The supression of Jews were widespread during world war II. Jews were the scapegoat of all social and economy problems during Hilter regime.
What is happening in Penang, is a repeat attempt of Ahmad to assign Chinese as the root cause of their 'problems'.
For me, I look highly and respect the Jews because of their intellgence. Rather than suppressing them, I prefer to emulate their thinking and mentality. This is the only way to improve oneself in all area of life. Be a pragmatic rather than blaming others for one's own 'misfortunate'.
A person with power, if he is inflicted with jeolousy, will always bring the desire of supressing the more intelligent social segment of the society. History has given us several examples. The supression of Jews were widespread during world war II. Jews were the scapegoat of all social and economy problems during Hilter regime.
What is happening in Penang, is a repeat attempt of Ahmad to assign Chinese as the root cause of their 'problems'.
For me, I look highly and respect the Jews because of their intellgence. Rather than suppressing them, I prefer to emulate their thinking and mentality. This is the only way to improve oneself in all area of life. Be a pragmatic rather than blaming others for one's own 'misfortunate'.
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